Ecstasy Is Necessary by Barbara Carrellas

Author:Barbara Carrellas
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Hay House, Inc.
Published: 2012-03-14T16:00:00+00:00

EXERCISE: SHARING TIME AND SPACE

Answer the following questions in your notebook:

Time: Even if you live together, the amount of time you actually spend together can be negotiable. Occasional weekend trips or vacations apart might be soothing and regenerative. Or, you may be able to satisfy your need for alone time by simply arranging to do different activities in different rooms. How much time do you wish to spend together?

Activities: For example, some people find showering or bathing together a romantic experience. Others cherish their bathroom time as alone time and do not want company. Ask yourself a similar question about mundane tasks as well. Perhaps you really like to go grocery shopping by yourself. Or maybe you really appreciate companionship when you visit the doctor or dentist. What kinds of things would you enjoy doing together? What kinds of things would you prefer to do alone?

Sharing space: Some people need an entire house—or a wing of a house—to themselves. Others need a room or an office. A private closet will satisfy this need for others. How much private space do you need?

Traveling: Although I am an adventurous traveler and love visiting friends, I cannot sleep in any room where I cannot close the door. I have been known to hang a sheet or set up a makeshift screen to energetically seal off my room. If I’m sharing a hotel room, I need occasional alone time there. What are your needs regarding space, time, and activities when you travel?

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